الأربعاء، 30 مارس 2011

Early marriage for fear of the specter of spinsterhood and time


Marriage step burnt another in spite of his love for the other partner. When most girls dream wedding is expected, every girl dreams of a white thobe and ornamental flowers.
But you may be the motive for marriage is the fear of spinsterhood? What is the role of society in the consolidation of this idea in the minds of girls in particular? What are the implications of early marriage? 

We live in Arab society is afraid of the girl and is keen to get out of her family home to live at her husband. From here, the idea of ​​early marriage inspire a lot of girls and parents in particular, despite the different customs and traditions.

Ideal age for marriage varies from one person to another and even between communities Some marriage is 18 years ago, early and some say that the age of puberty accepted universally 9-16 years old and some are age 11-12 years old either as defined by the International Convention on the Rights of the Child the age of 18 years is the end of childhood and early adulthood.

Which was Alamralve is where early marriage is the right of any human being to live a childhood full Bhqautea and sweetness, and undergo the stage of adolescence, and recognize the opposite sex likes and dislikes fail or succeed in building a relationship, and to pass the stage of completion and maturation of cognitive awareness and mental and stage of physical growth, seems clearly the effects of early marriage is the most important:Lack of psychological preparedness for man to marry and the participation of the other party-building family.Difficult burden of physical and economic building blocks of a happy family because of the deteriorating situation and the high cost of living costs of processing any house my husband and the lack of adequate housing, unemployment and the spread of disease.Deprive the girl of the right to education or teaching a craft or practice guarantee the economic independence from men.Ignorance of how the girl harmony and to deal with the new family and the different customs and traditions, especially if the girl was poor and the rich men, or vice versa.Difficulty with understanding life partner becomes the girl captive directives and orders of the husband.Easy control of the girl by the people get married because her maturity and awareness and the lack of ability to meet the other party.Lack of experience how to deal with pregnancy and motherhood.Likelihood of increased mortality if the mother is a small lack of experience feeding and child-rearing.The advantages of early marriage are:Age rapprochement between parents and children to the degree of handling and ease of understanding friends with the parents that their generation is close to the generation of children and match their thinking to some extent with the direction and thinking of their children.

 
Help the girl to her mother-service burden House before it reaches the age of the deficit.
 
Overcome the possibility of fetal malformation in the event of large girl.That young people today think that marriage needs to be expenses, costs and source of income constant, continuous and responsibility of the family burdens imposed upon them if they think to marry at an early age so they can not build a house and live by Haniyeh that ensure their future and then think about marriage. So sad for all on the verge of marriage, that the specter of spinsterhood forget that for every period of life and sweetness benefit as much as possible of this life, forgetting the pressures and requirements of society is to speak the plain and criticism easier.

Life is not a paper fortune, where human grief and tired and up for the night Abarrh to earn a living, it is not easy to build a family and meet all requirements. If we got to the level of awareness and understanding of the difficulties of life that increased with the increasing number of family members then think about birth control Vnovr on ourselves a lot of fuss and effort and provide for our children and our daughters a better future more prosperous and well-being.

Marriage of course important, but do not be afraid of the specter of time and the specter of spinsterhood and listen to the chattering Live community as much as possible and take advantage of your young people and when the time comes then marriage will be the right moment, do not bother ran behind him.



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